In my thirty years of life and experience in leadership roles in Christian organizations, there are leadership lessons that I learned (and continue to learn) from the life of ministry to which God called me. Over that time, He taught me lessons based on stories, principles, and truths from the Bible that have been translated into personal application. This particular series of articles focuses on a set of those lessons drawn from the book of Ezra in the Old Testament, the same lessons that I have published in my latest book. This week, in part 11, I am discussing one of several lessons on the practice of leadership, and this one is celebrations and why they matter. Here is the transcript of the podcast.
In this series we are diving deeper into principles and practices that connect biblical truth with wisdom and applying them to the practice of leadership. The purpose of the series, and of the website as a whole, is to connect faith, wisdom, and leadership in a way that will help you grow in your leadership and make an impact. That starts with realizing that God has a plan and purpose that can be trusted, whether or not we can visibly see His hand in it, and He has a part for us in this purpose.
We then spent 3 weeks laying the groundwork for effective leadership, using the analogy of the starting blocks in a race, when all the runners line up and get into position, and the starter yells, “On your mark, get set, go!” The first command, “On Your Mark,” was all about getting to the starting line and in the right place by getting yourself into the right frame of mind and equipping yourself for what is coming. Aligning yourself with truth by seeking and knowing God and knowing where He has placed you, and by establishing your foundational beliefs and values, gives you the capability to lead. The second command, “Get Set,” was all about getting into position in the right form, so that you are best prepared to start well. Performing the actions that set you up to be followed and trusted involves living your life so that your actions and behaviors reflect those beliefs, and that gives you the credibility to lead. The final command, “Go,” is when the starter’s pistol goes off and you start running. That’s when your work begins as you start leading your people and your organization toward your mission, vision, or change. This is hard work and therefore requires someone who is both capable and credible, and that’s why this step must follow the other two. But with those things in place, the race is underway, and what follows are the things you do to maintain your pace and your race. We have already talked about the importance of the ability to see the big picture, giving people a voice in the process and then motivating them, and about facing obstacles and opposition. Today we are discussing celebrations.
As someone with an introverted nature, I don’t think I have ever really enjoyed parties. I love the food that’s usually there, but the whole idea of loud interaction with other people is not really what I enjoy. But that’s not the same thing as a celebration. Celebrations serve the specific purpose of, well, celebrating something. The focus is not so much in the “party-ness” as it is on what and why something is being celebrated. One of my first memories of a celebration happened when I was a young child, about 8 or 9 years old. We went to a family gathering on my dad’s side of the family (he was one of 9 children, so it was a large family), and I remember all the storytelling and laughter that I kept hearing in the conversations among my aunts and uncles. They would stand together and share some memory and laugh, and that would lead to another memory and more laughter. I found myself wanting to be nearby so that I could hear the stories and enjoy the laughter myself. In fact, when we left, I remember telling my parents, “We should do that again, that was a lot of fun!” Oh, did I mention that this event was my grandmother’s funeral? It was. You see, my dad’s large family was characterized by two things – joy and Jesus. So my grandmother’s funeral was a time for them to celebrate her life and that she was now rejoicing with Jesus. All the stories were the many wonderful memories they shared about how meaningful she was in their lives, and in celebrating, they were honoring her life and her legacy.
Don’t think me morbid when I tell this story, because as an adult, I am very aware of the emotions and sadness that come with loss, and I know that my dad and my aunts and uncles were experiencing that grief at the time of my Grandma Mac’s passing, but because they knew she was with the Lord, they also celebrated who she was and how she had shaped them. It wasn’t a party, it was a celebration, a way to recognize and honor her life, milestones, and impact.
You see, this celebration of life was in actuality a beautiful way to mark an important milestone; in this case, a milestone in the lives of Grandma Mac’s children. Yes, there was grieving and loss, but her children turned the time of loss into a time of honor, marking and remembering the value of her life. Celebrations that honor something are important to people but celebrations are also important to organizations. That is because of the purpose they serve – to honor a milestone, an accomplishment, a completion, an impact. They bring joy, and sometimes closure, and they are a means of capturing the magnitude of a moment. Therefore, celebrations ought to be intentionally incorporated into the timeline of organizations.
How does that apply to you? Simply that you need to identify moments, events, and people to celebrate, and then make it a priority to do so. When you are undertaking a big and important project, celebrate the start, celebrate the finish, and find milestones in between to celebrate too! When someone is leaving the company and they have made an impact, celebrate them before they leave. When someone new is added, celebrate the arrival. When a significant recognition is awarded, celebrate. You get the idea – look for ways to celebrate meaningful things.
There is great benefit in celebrating. It’s good for the organization, it’s good for the people in the organization, and it also keeps God at the forefront of all that is happening. Celebrations build positive culture, and build value into people, and those are things that should characterize effective Christian leaders. So, look for opportunities to celebrate, and make them a part of the life of your organization. Celebrate.